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We should have ambitious dreams for great things right from the start of our life in school. Wait, I am not going to ask you to dream about your lover in this article. Such dreams will follow naturally during your youth, with out any help from anyone. No one is needed to teach you those facts of life.

Dream here means your aim in life. We definitely should have some dreams in life.

Once while a religious person from India happened to be traveling to Japan by ship, he was astonished to see an old Japanese man who appeared to be over 90 years, reading a book all the time during the journey.

One day he asked the old man what he was reading.

He said, “My dear friend, I am learning Chinese. I always wanted to learn the language but somehow due to continuous work I could not fulfill my desire. Now, as I have plenty of time during this long journey, I am using this good opportunity to learn the Chinese language.

For once in my life, I truly believe I will finally find someone
who can completely turn my world around,

Someone whom I can freely tell my most intimate thoughts and desires
that I’ve kept locked in my soul and
she absorbs everything I say and
actually wants to hear more.

I will share with her my hopes for the future,
my dreams that may never come true,
goals that were achieved and yet to be achieved and
the many, many disappointments life has thrown at me.

When something wonderful happens,
I couldn’t wait to tell her about it,
knowing she will share in my excitement.

There are many reasons for women to forgive their cheating husbands.

1) Their love towards the husbands is so strong and real that they are not able to depart from them. When you love a person abundantly, and then whatever mistake he/she commits you tend to forgive and forget as time passes on. The time period to forgive may vary depending upon the intensity of the mistake.

2) Women do not want to be alone with their children. They are safe living with their husbands.

3) She may need the financial support of the husband for herself and her children.

I am sure you will be surprised if I say that Man is the only animal that is affected by boredom. Have you ever seen your dog being in a state of boredom? The fact is no animal is ever bored except man.

“If your shoe fits, you need not worry about your leg” - Osho

This saying may be applied further…
• If your pant fits, you need not worry about your waist.
• If your employee fits, you need not worry about your business.
• If your husband/wife fits, you will not have any family worries.
• If your mind fits, you will have no worries.

The effects of success or failures should not affect a calm mind. If the mind is calm it will be neutral to extreme happiness and sorrows. You need not worry about your self or anything for that matter if your mind fits.

Hard work perhaps can be rated as the best personality trait of a person’s attributes. There can be no substitute for hard work. I believe in hard work. I love hard working people. People will always respect and love hard working persons.

My question now is whether all hard working people succeed in life?
On the other hand, do all lazy people fail in life?
The answer is” No”.

Similarly, I have some more questions. Do all the intelligent people come up in life?
Alternatively, do all dull persons fail in life?

Again, the answer is a big “NO”.

There was once a popular witch doctor living in a small town. People went to him with so many problems, which he could solve with his remedies. He was particularly good in solving problems of childlessness in women.

Sangeetha was married for eight years and was childless. Her worry went beyond her control and found no meaning in her life without a child. Then she came to know about the witch doctor and finally approached him.

(This is a not a story but a real incident happened a few months ago)

He was a young boy, fifteen years of age. His father is a habitual drunkard. He never cared for this boy. His mother is also not so supportive. He has grown up without proper love or care.

One day he picked a quarrel with his father and left home. He decided to visit his grand father who was living about 15oo kms away from his home. The poor boy had no money to embark on this journey so he decided to hitchhike.

People say that the human mind is like a monkey, as it skips and jumps to many different thoughts. The mind can be compared to a horse too. The Human mind is like a tough horse. It is not easy to control it.

There are four types of horses namely very good, good, ordinary and bad.

The very good horse will run when it sees the shadow of the whip. The good one does it when it sees the whip. The third one runs when the trainer whips it. The fourth one does not run even when he whips it harshly.